Dirty talk is fun and totally normal, as well as healthy. However, sometimes there are certain terms that catch you off guard. We all need time to acclimate to certain terms in the bedroom. Some people seem to need more time than others, but it is always up to you to decide what you feel comfortable with. That means taking in your partner’s suggestions and also seeing what they are comfortable with. But what if they ask you to call them something that doesn’t make sense to you? Something like daddy? Maybe you haven’t heard it before and it completely startles you when he requests it. It’s okay to be thrown off by it, not everyone understands why they men ask to be called daddy.
That’s why we have these reasons for you to look at. They will help you better understand where your man is coming from when he asks you to call him daddy.
- He Likes To Feel Dominant
It’s not so much that he thinks of himself as a father figure. It’s more like he wants to feel in charge, while still being considering a loving person. Men feel like when a woman calls them daddy they are letting their guard down and becoming more vulnerable. This is a turn on for some men. They like to feel as if the woman is being submissive. Being in control is usually a turn on for anyone, but especially for men. Being called daddy makes him feel like he has a position of power with you. When you say it, he may feel as if you he is the most crucial person in your life right now.
- It’s His Preferred Term Of Endearment
Some men like to be called honey, others like to be called daddy. It can simply be a preference. They may have learned that as term of endearment by seeing it in media, watching their parents do it or observing other couples do it.
- He’s Actually A Father
Fortunately, sometimes when a man requests to be called daddy, it is sometimes because they are a father. Of course, if they ask you to call them that in bed, it is still a play on power. It just makes it a little less weird if they actually have children of their own or with you.
- They Want To Feel Respected
If a man does not feel like he is getting enough respect, he might ask to be called daddy. He feels like he deserves a title. He may feel as if he has even earned it from you.
- They Feel As If It Will Attract You To Them
For thousands of years, women were attracted to the most powerful, dominant men. It isn’t as common today as it was in the olden days, but it is still something that lingers on society. Women do like powerful men, and men want to be powerful. It’s a win, win in that situation.
- It Seems Naughty
Some guys like it when you call them daddy because it seems like it’s almost taboo. He knows that a lot of people frown upon the dirty word daddy and that turns him on immensely. It’s almost like having a forbidden relationship, only instead of a romance, it’s just a simple word.
- It Makes Him Feel Manly
Okay, so maybe he isn’t trying to feel powerful. He could be trying to feel a little more masculine. Daddy is really the most masculine term you could call him and he knows that, so now he is requesting you use it with him.
- He’s Watches A Lot Of Porn
Porn is a lot of ‘daddy’ this and ‘daddy’ that. Some men start watching pornography from a very young and that can have a major impact on how they prefer talk, be talked to and act in bed. Even if they have not been watching porn for a long time, they still may have seen a few of them that use daddy in them and he realized that it turns him on. He may be wanting to experiment it in real life with you now.
- He Wants To Feel Like You Are His
Yes, this goes hand in hand with dominance. But, sometimes it’s just about him feeling like you are truly committed to him. He feels like if he gets you to call him daddy in bed that you will show your dedication to him. Although he isn’t trying to technically own you, he wants to feel some air of ownership.
- It’s Just A Quirk
Maybe he does not have a reason that he likes being called daddy at all, other than he just simply likes it. Some men say that they really do not know why they like being called daddy, but that they just do and always have.